<<Genesis93>> wrote:You... my friend.....need to have a 'sit down' with the partner.
If you want to have a future that involves guns.... AND her (him?).... then you gotta make some choices. Having to go 'find' your guns at another location when you want to shoot, clean or just fondle(some do) your guns... would be very annoying very quickly.... If you want to regain the manliness (again assuming you're a bloke)... then you must de-emasculate yourself and put your guns where you want, in your own space.
As far as where can the safe go; anywhere you want, as long as it's only accessible to YOU and those who are licensed for all the categories in there and with your consent...
Supaduke wrote:Just buy the safe and put it somewhere discreet in your house or shed.
If it's true love she will moan a bit then accept it and move on.
If she really tries to give you the "me or the guns" ultimatum then you will probably be saving yourself years of misery.
It starts with guns then moves onto other things. You're a grown ass man, don't let them dictate what sort of legal fun you can have.
This strikes a bit of a nerve for me. I've got ex partners that tried this sort of business. If you are paying with your own money and your other bills are sorted the. No one has the right to tell you what you can and can't do.
It's a partnership, not a dictatorship. Grow a pair young man , and hold your head high. Brrrr, I'm getting flashbacks now of angry women lol.
Elmer wrote:Supaduke wrote:Just buy the safe and put it somewhere discreet in your house or shed.
If it's true love she will moan a bit then accept it and move on.
If she really tries to give you the "me or the guns" ultimatum then you will probably be saving yourself years of misery.
It starts with guns then moves onto other things. You're a grown ass man, don't let them dictate what sort of legal fun you can have.
This strikes a bit of a nerve for me. I've got ex partners that tried this sort of business. If you are paying with your own money and your other bills are sorted the. No one has the right to tell you what you can and can't do.
It's a partnership, not a dictatorship. Grow a pair young man , and hold your head high. Brrrr, I'm getting flashbacks now of angry women lol.
Mate, I had one of those experiences,an ex asked me to pick out my favourite gun and get rid of the rest....thats why shes called an ex
JJD wrote: as she absolutely does not want them in our house .
brett1868 wrote:I've had several of these discussions with the Russian Princess, first it was the motorcycle and I explained I was riding bikes before I was riding her so the bike stayed. Then it was the farting in bed, I explained that I was farting in bed before she was born and I'll continue to fart in bed long after she's gone. Lastly was the guns and I explained to her that I was shooting long before I met her and will continue to shoot. The moral, if you give in on anything they'll lose all respect for you as a man and you'll soon be their bitch.
That said, maybe try and get her involved and show her the sporting uses of firearms. The biggest growth at the moment in license applications is women.
Good luck
<<Genesis93>> wrote:So... I've been thinking about the guns issue (as he cradles spade.. or perhaps... it's a shovel)
Darl, you know how I feel about the weapons...
Theyre Not WEAPONS... my online friends told me their FIREARMS... cause weapons are either intended to be used or indeed used to injure another person in either a defensive or offensive manner...
OK.... Firearms...I would NEVER want to you to BURY them....
OH.............its not for the guns....
[[flurry of activity, bags packed, straight our front door, door swings on its hinges, you know, like in them westens'....]]
PROBLEMO... Solved.
Youre welcome.