I think "too hot" is in the eye of the individual mate.
I look at it this way--steel erosion in your barrel is directly proportionate to the temp...so i limit my groups down to 3 with sporter weight barrels now.
I find just 3 shot groups in winter & i can shoot another group in as little as 10 mins, whereas if i fire a fourth, i have to wait 20 mins for the barrel to cool back down to the same temp.
I know a guy who has no comprehention of this & he would slways pump 100+ rounds through his 223 in 45 mins, often shooting 40 shot strings in rapid time...to the point of having a mirage off his barrel on a cold winters day
my estimate is he got around 1000 inch grouping rounds out of his new stainless barrel.
& yes, i more often than not have 2 or 3 rifles on the bench...
For some rifles i have a seperate lot of brass for & do relevant testing to load them with trailboss & cheap projectiles--burns much cooler so you can pump many more rounds out without excessive heat, & still get to shoot (only thing is with less recoil).
I use these in between groups with an alternative rifle while waiting for barrel to cool.
So i guess it depends how long you want the barrel to last...if you want max life out of it, only shoot single shots on a cold bore...if you dont care, blast away hard & fast.
Or go by gut feel & monitor the round count & see how long your baby lives...
I seem to remember the Master Marksman recently sharing that he polishes the throat of his pipes every couple hundred rounds to close up the pores & prolong life/try minimise erosion--but best he details that theory as ive yet to do that due to my lack of bore scope.
This is just my opinion & regime of late, but hopefully more experienced guys can ring in here...particularly those with bore scopes who monitor their barrels with regularity.
Hope thats of use to you...
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