ThumbNT wrote:so far im thinking to start with either 380 acp or 22lr because the missus will want to plink with it also, and should she get into i can simply get a new 9mm or 45 for myself.
got about $1500 to spend, not brand loyal, not fussed on weight/size or recoil (within reason)
Forget the .380acp straight away. Most guns in .380 are pocket pistols which you can't have due to the minimum barrel length requirements we have here (120mm semi-auto/100mm revolver). I can't even think of any legally complaint .380s off the top of my head let alone any which are actually being imported for sale
I also wouldn't recommend a .45ACP either. You will require an extra endorsement on your license and can only shoot it in one or two matches. I own a 1911 in .45ACP and love it but it is an added pain to do the required shoots as I have to travel an hour each way to a club which can shoot metallic silhouette. The match itself is terrible to shoot with a 1911 as well.
As far as semi auto .22s go I recommend a Ruger. Mark III, IV, 22/45. It doesn't matter, they're all good. A Browning Buckmark is good as well. If you buy second hand you can get a great gun for a great price as well. If you want a revolver grab a S&W 617 or a Ruger SP101. The S&W is prettier but the Rugers are cheaper. Both will outlast you.
Centerfire choices are pretty varied. I always recommend new shooters to try as many guns as possible before buying. We have had too many members to count who want something based on TV/movies/gaming and once they get it and shoot it they hate it. Yes, Beretta 92FS, I'm looking at you. If you stick with one of the big brands you will have no troble with parts, customisation or service. Stick with Ruger, S&W, Glock, CZ etc and you won't go wrong.
If I was in your shoes I would buy a Ruger MIV or Browning Buckmark for a .22 and a Glock 17A. If I was in to revolvers I would buy a S&W 617 for .22 and a Ruger GP100 for centerfire.